Monday, April 12, 2010

it's a simon and garfunkel moment


Okay, maybe just the first 2 lines of the lyrics, 4 perhaps.  But I LOVE the melody to the song Sounds of Silence.

And with that, I've forgotten what I was going to post about.  Oh, yes, sounds...

After visiting several churches in the area over the past few months, we think we've decided on one to stick with for now.  It's been tricky.  But the more we have visited, the more our desires have become clear.
Christ-centered theology.  Hearing the trite, over-used phrase, "God wants to bless your socks off," or a variation thereof in many larger denominationally affiliated affiliated churches has made me gag.  When did they become cousins to the pink-haired TV-preachers or MLM conference speakers? (Ok, well assuming the pastors of these churches and the individuals mentioned here are Believers, I guess they would be cousins.) Now, don't get me wrong, I do believe God loves me. John 3:16, duh.  But is blessing my socks off his primary purpose?    How about Micah 6:8?  The Beatitudes? 

I post in hopes that I don't hurt anyone's feelings, because most of the churches we've found have been very friendly and the people seem to love Jesus very much.  It's been nice to feel that most places we visited, we have been welcomed and our kids have been loved well.  If Nashville was the buckle of the Bible belt, I think we're at one of the holes in the leather. We found a few of churches with good Bible teaching, but TERRIBLE music.  Either too rock-concertish and not worshipful at all or too simplistic and also not worshipful in the opposite extreme.  Both extremes can be hokey, period, and distract from the teaching of God's word.  We love contemporary worship songs and classic hymns, all with theological depth.  We also love the use of various instruments to assist in making a joyful noise to the Lord.  Not trite choruses sung repetitiously over and over and over and over.  Nor do we particularly care for 1930's genre "gospel hymns" that are not really singing the Gospel message at all, but some kind of moral code.

A solid children's ministry  is also a must... preferrably with some kind of childrens church during the worship service.  And finally, the service times had to fit.  We discovered that Sunday morning is best for us with hubby's schedule.  Early rising during the week makes Sunday evenings HARD to do for our primary worship service. 

So, yeah, it's been hard , but after visiting around a 15 mile radius, I think we're ready to stick with one to see if that's where God wants us to plug in and serve. When Bear was dismissed from the service to go to their Preschool Praise class, I was thrilled when her teacher recognized her.  It had been at least 2 months since our last visit.  The music was not really close to what we were used to in Nashville, but it was good, God-centered, and heartfelt.  The Pastor used a Psalm to teach how David made clear choices toward godliness when he could have sought his own agenda.... in essence, he could have killed Saul, but decided to wait for God to accomplish His will in His time.
 

5 comments:

Samantha said...

Finding your church home can be difficult, especially when there are so many options. I will pray for you and the decision that you have made.

We enjoyed seeing J here in our neck of the woods. It was helpful talking to him about the whole job/moving stuff, as we are trying to figure that out for ourselves, too.

Tech Mom said...

Glad you feel you have found a place for now--sorry it felt like the hole in the buckle!!

happymcfamily said...

In reference to the comment about God wanting us to have an abundant life, you bet he does. And just because someone claims that from the pulpit, doesn't make it a ploy (although there are plenty). The trouble is that many people only perceive "the abundant life" as times when they are experiencing peace and joy and happiness (not that there's anything wrong with experience that). But, well, Priscilla Shirer says it better than I do:
"What abundance really means is when you're in the impossible situation, and right in the heart of your impossible, you say 'Now is the time for me to see and experience the fullness of God."

No, God's PRIMARY purpose is not to bless our socks off. But yes, he DOES want to bless our socks off. Fortunately He knows better than we do that the best way to do so isn't always in the sunshiny, whistling, trouble-free sorts of seasons. And sometimes
He is gracious enough to blessed with those seasons too.

Lauren said...

Yes, I agree, Bec. But my problem is with those that teach the wrong version that their way is always God's way and He will bless you if you join them in what He is doing there. What if that's not God's place for you? Manipulation for the advancement of their kingdom in God's name makes me sick.

happymcfamily said...

agreed.