Tuesday, July 24, 2007

Tackle It Tuesday Meme

Tackles of the week:

General Housework

Well, I'm behind on chores (shocking, I know), so this week I am returning to public posting of my To-do list so it stares me in the face. I think I'll even do the color coding. As one who is domestically challenged and a procrastinaholic to boot, I find this to be an effective way of holding myself accountable.

Red= needs to be done
Yellow= in process
Green= tackle completed

Ok, so here's my "Master List". An * indicates what I will focus on today.
  1. Sweep kitchen floor*
  2. Mop kitchen floor*
  3. wash, fold & put away clothes (5 loads)*
  4. clean out fridge*
  5. clean bathrooms (2)
  6. straighten living room
  7. pick up nursery
  8. vacuum all carpets
  9. water flowers & cherry tomatoes*
  10. change and wash bed & crib sheets
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original post 9:13 a.m. Tuesday


My list is stuck as you see it. I should tackle more. Specifically, the fridge. But I'm in a slump today. Headache. (Probably from wasting time online). I'm wearing my most comfy pair of jeans- the ones with the holes in the knee and back pockets that I can't bear to throw out. I have rotated laundry. I keep hoping a summer shower will pop up so I don't have to water the flowers and tomatoes. Although it is a little fun to try to flood the mole tunnels as I water the flowerbeds. Hubby came home for lunch and has set up his office in the guest room for the afternoon. PBS is on TV- Clifford the Big Red Dog, to be exact. Not much variety here- no cable or satellite. Yet. Maybe in a few months, when hubby gets a raise.

Anyway, I will try to get back to the tackle and continue updating the color-codes as I complete my tasks.

Oh, and I must say I am overwhelmed by the # of responses to my giveaway. They are pretty bracelets. Dainty yet eye-catching. I'm going to have to make a raffle ticket shuffler out of an oatmeal container or something! Actually, I do think I have a value-sized diaper box that will do the trick. After all this insanity of the giveaway is done, hopefully some of you will stick around!

**** Almost halfway through the list... not a bad start for the day. Tomorrow I hope to spend more time playing with my daughter. But today, she thought it was fun helping me push wet clothes into the dryer and throw dirty clothes into the washer from atop a step ladder. Too bad laundry is an ever-growing pile! 8:43 p.m.

Monday, July 23, 2007


SHARE THE FUN!

I couldn't resist joining the party!

I have a couple of Premier Designs' Austrian Crystal tennis bracelets left in mint condition from my stint as a jewelry lady.

These pretty and petite bracelets are 7 1/4" in length,
and add just the right sparkle to any summer sundress.

Leave a comment if you would like to enter the drawing for this set- you'll receive one bracelet for you, and one to give to a friend!

The drawing will be held on Friday, July 27th.

Be sure to enter before 12:00 a.m. CST on Friday!

Oh, and I'm sorry but I will only mail to the United States or Canada.

Good luck!

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issues and impact

Isn't it amazing that relatively short times can have such a profound impact on our lives?
My family spent just a few years attending an Independent Fundamental Baptist (VERY conservative/legalistic) church, yet I came out of that experience with an extreme desire to be liked accompanied by a doubt that friends really would be there for me, and a fear of doing anything wrong for fear of what others might think. I'm sure their intention was to teach kids the ways of the Lord, but what WE did or did not do often over-shadowed God's working in our lives. To be fair, the Bible classes and AWANA clubs I was involved in at that particular church and school in Mid-Michigan laid a good foundation of Biblical knowledge. However, that church/school's interpretation of grace often manifested itself as,"Thank God I'm saved and I'm not like that...."

Anyway, the few years we spend in that environment, well, they had an impact. I still struggle with being judgmental to this day. Oh, I believe there is absolute truth and it can be found in the Bible, but I also believe life's not so much about us and what we do (or don't do), but about knowing God. Trusting in Christ as Saviour, recognizing that my need for His grace did not stop at the point of salvation, and knowing that because I CAN trust the One who created me, I can also be vulnerable and develop friendships... even with those who think differently than me.

When hubby and I met, we clicked partially because of our past involvement in similar churches. He was taking a theology class at the college he transferred to following the semester of the Marshmallow Man incident. We spent hours on the phone discussing what he was learning from his professor, and getting to know each other. Together we learned that God's forgiveness and grace continues into daily life, and that living the "good Christian life" is not all about us. We could not do it without knowing Jesus personally. Oh, we knew that before, too. But in the midst of the lip service to living by grace, there were always pressures attached. Go to church. Make sure you haven't "backslidden." Recommit yourself (versus focusing on Christ and asking the Holy Spirit to change your heart as only He can.) Avoid ALL appearances of evil. Thank God there IS more to life than rules, rules, and more rules. Seeking His glory instead of other peoples' approval makes so much more sense. I mean, no offense to anyone, but we are all a bunch of idiots in need of a Saviour. When we create a new law to follow, adding rules that are not really in His Word, we run into serious problems. On the other hand, I recognize that I have
often been so critical of legalism that I end up judging people for what I perceive to be their lack of understanding of the true Freedom we have in Christ. Ironic, isn't it?

****
Galatians 2:16-21

Sunday, July 22, 2007

a family history... of sorts


'Twas Autumn '07, the setting serene...

An upstanding young man arrived on the scene
Where his parents had attended some decades before.

He knew the rules of this tranquil estate.
Even his brother stayed 'til graduation date.

No pink or blue sidewalks as rumor suggests.
A fine Christian place, where "only good kids" are sent.



Stained glass windows abound.
Making prisms of light.

And this place where some have found love at first sight...

Unlike those secular schools, no making out here.
Not for this boy, (it was early in the year).

This young man and his friends had a "home away from home".
But rules would not allow them to roam.

Still, they obeyed, doing their best.
To appease the VanG's and all of the rest.

Demerits were slow as the semester began.
Examples needed to be made, of any young man
Who stepped out of the box, did something silly or rash.
With the Dean of Men he surely would clash.


One day there was horseplay in a dorm room.
No beer, cigars, nor rock n' roll tune.

Just some guys tossing around the "Stay-Puff marshmallow man";
Out the window it fell and on the sidewalk did land.

The young men were then told they were sinful and liars.
At semester's end one left, as of mind games he grew tired.

Home returned, and one night out with the friends,
He told me the story... and I believed him!



Several years later, we visited the site.
Where that boy and his buddies got in trouble that night.
Hubby wore shorts, our baby sniffed a flower.
We loitered on campus (with his parents) for over an hour.

Is her tuition pre-payed?
Oh, we don't know if to this college our children should go.

In the midst of the rules and strong academics,
lies a pandemic of the heart which may breed rebels and cynics.

We hope to follow the Word and let bygones pass...
only the Lord knows our children's paths.

home, sweet home

we had a great weekend. went to hubby's cousin's wedding in SC. saw family, met other cousins' new spouses, visited with family friends who were surrogate "uncle and aunt" to hubby's parents when they were in college. i had heard much about the university, and we walked around the campus for a bit, then drove to see the downtown area since we did not have any pre-wedding obligations.

the wedding was beautiful. traditional, simple and elegant (complete with a string quartet). the bride's gown was gorgeous and suited her. hubby kept baby bear in a back room so she wouldn't disturb the ceremony. baby bear was afraid of aunt janet's wheel chair at first, until she realized she could push it around like a car (with daddy's help).

the reception was at a gorgeous southern mansion. i didn't get as many pictures as i intended of the wedding or reception, due to chasing a little one around to keep her from breaking antiques, etc... she met a 7 year old boy and they chased one another around the bushes and gates, giving my weary feet a break.

Thursday, July 19, 2007

Maybe we'll just buy this house while we're in Gulf Shores!

We only need a few million bucks!






p.s. Thanks, crt, for the idea. :-)
Please pray!

My cousin's baby, Catherine, is had heart surgery TODAY. This is being done to repair a hole in her heart that did not close up after her birth a little over a year ago. They expect her to be in the hospital for 5-10 days.

Pray for peace for Mom and Dad, healing for Baby Catherine, and for her big brother, Sammy.

Apparently I got my dates mixed up. Anyway, here's the update from another cousin:

" Mary Just called (12:36 west coast time) , Catherine is out of surgery. The
surgery went very well and quicker than expected. She had already come out
of sedation but was immediately wanting to get moving and busy (no surprise
to anyone who has ever met Catherine :)) so they have given her something to
make her sleepy and rest. Mary says she looks great, the incision is
smaller than she had anticipated, and she only has 2 chest tubes left in at
the moment.

She and Sam have been ordered to go get some fresh air and a bite to eat,
while Catherine Rests."

Praise the Lord, and keep praying for continued recovery!
Weekend prep

We're going away this weekend, so I've made it a point to water my flowerbeds really well the last couple of days. I tied my cherry tomato plants up to stakes, as they were leaning over the side of their pot. Baby Bear's "help" turned her into one very wet toddler. She poured water from one bucket to the next, watered the flowers and her dress with her watering can, and turned dirt into mud.

Thankfully, the past couple of days my housekeeping has improved slightly. I've managed to just straighten a little here and there, put things away a bit at a time, and the result is so much easier to look at. And walk through.

Today's mission: pack for the weekend. maybe run to the store for some snacks for the road.

Wednesday, July 18, 2007






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Tuesday, July 17, 2007

to dispel the myth believed by some blogging buddies that i am a master gardener:

here's what's left under the birch tree.. one verbena and one celosia
(i blame the wandering animals who mark their territory there for the other plants' failure to thrive under the tree)


hosta with slug holes and crooked flower stems
note the verbena and snapdragons that i should probably just pull out from in front of these



half-eaten black-eyed susan plants (and not so gorgeous buds)
i do hope that since we scared the most recent bug infestation off with sevin,
with a little tlc these may thrive



the mid summer re-blooming of the day lilies, surrounded by withering glad leaves
i suppose that if i did not water these, they would not be re-blooming.
at least that's what i like to think!

my gardening observations:
  • bugs happen
  • animal poop & pee happen
  • drought happens
  • do your best to take care of things anyway, but don't blame yourself if your efforts aren't as well-rewarded as you hoped
  • (unless you spray round up on green peppers instead of insecticide!)
10,000+ visitors?

um... my guess is that the ticker counts the # of times i click back to my page, which would probably cut the actual count in half.

but for those of you who really do wander here, especially those who come back, thanks!!!
Tackle It Tuesday Meme


Let's Tackle!

Ok, the past few weeks I have not really tackled any "project" areas. I have mostly done basic maintenance-type tackles. The floors, laundry, bathrooms, etc...

This morning started out with outdoor maintenance of sorts. I watered all the plants and fed my hostas and black-eyed susans some Miracle Grow. Last week, hubby dusted all the flowers with Sevin, because they were getting eaten. (I hate using it very often with Baby Bear running around outside. I have to make sure she doesn't try to pick any flou-flous with dust on them.) I apparently have slugs on my hostas, too, so I may have to go buy some beer. By the time I got home from my half-weekend adventure, the black-eyed susans looked pretty thirsty.

Anyway, my Master Bedroom is looking increasingly like a collection of various piles of stuff instead of the peaceful retreat it should be. (I would love to be able to light candles without danger of catching something on fire!) So that's what I'm going to tackle this week. A nook or dresser top at a time. (It may not get completely done today, and be warned... these pictures are for real. Yes, I realize my room looks worse than many teenagers'. Don't run away screaming or puking, please... and don't tell me that if I just took care of a little at a time it would not get so bad. I already know that.)


BEFORE:


AFTER:




I accidentally deleted the "before" shot, but this afternoon I managed to uncover my dresser.
Well, mostly.
So, what's your tackle today?
I challenge those of you who
don't usually participate
in this meme to join us this week-
with before and after pics!

updated 1:43 p.m.&10:10 p.m.

Sunday, July 15, 2007




"Grace" got me thinkin'....

When I first began blogging, I stumbled upon a site about Grace-Based Discipline. I've added it to the "ponderings" section in my sidebar. Not because I agree with every single thing this woman says about everything. But because I do like that she gives practical alternatives for disciplining kids without using corporal punishment. And she seems to have good Biblical basis for many of her ideas.

I've spanked Baby-Bear on occasion, usually when she put herself in some type of physical danger. Ironic, eh? (For example, when she flip-flops on the changing table like a fish out of water while I am trying to get her diaper on. Changing her on the floor really is not much easier... she's quite the squirmer. If Daddy is not around for on of us to pin her shoulders down so she cannot flip while the other takes care of the diaper, I have been known to smack her little bottom after. And it's worked momentarily.) However, it's not something I want to do on a regular basis. I was not spanked a whole lot as a child, or else I've blocked the episodes out of my memory. I do remember having my mouth washed out with soap... Dial. Ugh... Not sure I really want to do that either. Anyway....

I'm searching for any and every recommendation for effective discipline and boundary setting tips for parents. Preferably ones that help us address the "heart" issues. "Parenting is Heart Work" is a good book, but seems geared more toward the 5+ age range.

WHAT WORKS FOR YOU? (Or worked for you when you had little ones.)

Saturday, July 14, 2007

I have sea legs.

After getting our planning done last night and this morning, we spent lots of time in the water. Center Hill Lake is the only lake I've been near in this state that has not scared me to get into in a long time. No, it's not the clearest, but we could see some fish in the water in the marina, and there was very little debris of any type in the water. And the water actually felt clean when we got into it. Oh, and it did not stink. The temp was perfect. (Once while we were dating hubby and I went for what supposed to be a romantic day trip to Kentucky Lake, the next state up. I now refer to it as Stinky Fish Lake. If I believed in bad omens, the sight and smell of the dead fish which we encountered washed ashore and saw floating in the water would have been enough to end our relationship. Percy Priest Lake is not AS bad, but not nearly as scenic or clean as CHL.) We swam off the boat for at least an hour, using rafts and "noodles" for flotation. Fish nibbled at our heels from time to time, and ducks swam within 10 feet of us. Oh, and a few of us went down the water slide off the back of the boat into the water. FUN!!! The weather was PERFECT. Our hosts were gracious. Their boat was amazing.... probably worth more than our house, and oh, so comfortable. A perfect place to relax. The fellowship was sweet, and our Mom's HEART ministry should have a great year. I had the pleasure of getting to know our church's founding pastor's wife personally, and friendships were formed and strengthened with some wonderful other Moms. In a big church, it's hard to get to know people sometimes. I knew more people on our committee than I realized. And they either liked my cake and brownies or were really gracious. The best part was finding a group of women that I didn't feel like I had to really pretend around. It wasn't quite like being around the close friends I've had forever, but it was much easier than I expected. I even confessed my near-cancellation and allergy cop-out. (My allergies are real, but I have felt better the past days over all than in a week.)

Got home around 6:45 tonight, and received a great big BEAR hug. She and Daddy did well, other than the fact she woke him up at 5:45 this morning. And I can't believe it took me 21 months to leave my baby for 1 night. I loved knowing she was in good hands. And I must confess, I loved leaving hubby with the responsibility. I came home to a happy baby girl,a swept floor, folded laundry & an empty kitchen sink. AND a clean dishwasher. He is the best. Oh, and he didn't make me cook... we split fajitas at "our" Mexican restaurant. Baby Bear LOVED the guacamole.

I'm going to go cuddle with my hubby in front of the tv now. Hope the rest of your weekend is great!

Thursday, July 12, 2007

Don't be fooled...

I may appear quite social on here, and even if you were to meet me in real life. However, certain situations make me nervous. Going on a retreat with a bunch of women I don't know all that well is one of them. However, I've been asked to serve on a committee and our retreat is tomorrow night, so we're going to a house boat on a lake to plan and relax. Hubby will have baby duty til Saturday evening, and I suspect my cell coverage will be limited, based on the water level in relation to the hills surrounding the lake.

My allergies seem to be doing better, though the inhalers make me a tad shaky. So I have to get over my social anxieties which have resurfaced and just go. I have a chance to actually get to know some wonderful women from our church, I can't back out now.
My favorite sounds...

  • Baby Bear's exclamation of "yayyy!!!" and hands clapping at the end of any song. This could be a song on the radio, Mommy or Daddy's rendition of the ABC song, a song on a video, or even a hymn or gospel song at Avoca Bible Church.
  • The garage door or front door opening when hubby returns home from work, followed quickly by Baby Bear's shouting ,"Da-Da or Daddy! " as she runs to greet him.
  • The ocean lapping against the sand on the shore.
  • Birds chirping.
  • Baby Bear's breath as we rock.
  • The creak of the rocking chair.
  • The sounds of nature at my parents' home: wind through the trees, frogs (well, sometimes they get annoying), birds.
  • Baby Bear's chuckles.
  • Wind in the sails of a sailboat.
  • Wind in my ears at the beach.
  • Music. Especially piano, classical guitar or Baby Bear banging on the keys or turning a toy or everyday object into an instrument of some sort.
  • Baby Bear asking for a bow whether it's to play with or wear.
  • Soft wind chimes.
  • Rushing water- Falls Creek Falls, Laurel Falls, or other streams in the middle of the woods.
  • Baby Bear's grunts as she attempts to pull herself somewhere she really shouldn't be, like on top of the chest(makeshift coffee table) in our play room.inspiring
  • New words or phrases from Baby Bear.
  • Hubby's voice. and breath from the pillow next to me while he sleeps.
  • A well-played harmonica.
  • Gentle, steady rain
  • silence the morning after a heavy snowfall. you can almost hear the glistening of the snow if you listen carefully (doesn't happen often here)
  • a good friends voice on the other end of the phone line
Thanks to FarmWife for inspiring this post! Please leave a comment if you've decided to play along with us!

Wednesday, July 11, 2007

my new motto is in the sidebar

My friend Angela over at Creative Day Cafe' e-mailed it to me... she said it reminded her of me because of my comments about my blogging addiction.



I have another WW post on Baby Bear's Blog.
I couldn't bear to post it as the follow-up to our wedding pictures on this page.

Tuesday, July 10, 2007

8 years ago...


we posed.. got the pictures over with before the ceremony.
one of the best decisions we ever made.


here's a picture of a photo of a reflection... with our sisters posing with us




my all-time favorite photo from our wedding day
(it was a candid shot, we did not have a dance at our reception.):





There, that's my tackle this Tuesday. Reminiscing. Giving thanks for a wonderful husband and friend, who is now a terrific daddy.

I could type a long elaborate post. I could post more pictures, too. But I won't. Believe it or not, I am a private person. (Don't let my 500 posts on this blog alone fool you.)


Happy Anniversary, Hubby. Te amo mas y mas...
ok.. my stream-of-consciousness-pity-party-posting is OVER.

(For now.)

I'll be back after I get over myself and get some stuff done.
Tackle It Tuesday????

Getting out of bed was a tackle for me today. The sore throat I got struck with late Saturday evolved into sinus issues, which have become accompanied by a cough. My usual bi-annual crud.
It's a good thing we celebrated our anniversary early on Friday night!

Bear's eyes glued to Sesame Street. In a few months, maybe we'll get cable, DirectTV or Dish network. I would love to have more variety in kids' shows. At least I haven't seen this episode before.

I am bitter. I know the not-so-fresh tasting salmon was not my fault, and the store gave me an apology and a refund when I brought in the receipt last night. But when you already feel like you've been hit by a truck and re-stuffed with cotton balls, the last thing you want is your hopes of a good meal crushed by inferior quality meat. Even if you live a great distance from an ocean and fresh seafood is an oxymoron.

I am also stumped. I wanted to cook a nice meal last night. Should I try again tonight, or demand we go out to eat on our anniversary? The thing is, since I am not a domestic diva, and hubby is pretty content and doesn't need a lot of gifts for our special occasions, attempting to make him a decent meal is sort of a gift in itself. So I enjoy serving him a good meal on our special occasions. And then when we visit homes that are perfectly manicured the guilt trip for NOT being a domestic diva, or just a good homemaker sets in. (That's what happened Saturday. I am my own worst enemy.)

Anyway, lots of possibilities loom around me for today's tackle. Toys and blocks are everywhere. I've unloaded the dishwasher once. The bathrooms need freshening. The kitchen floor needs scrubbing, as it will again 1 hour after I wash it. There's a pile of clutter next to my bed that has been haunting me for months now. The fridge needs a good "science project removal". There's laundry (that my beloved made sure got washed while I was sick on Sunday) strewn across the guest bed waiting to be put away. (He did fold our clothes, just threw the sheets and towels on the bed.)

Oh, and I can't forget to get or make my beloved his anniversary card.

Monday, July 09, 2007

I'm a wimp.

Just when I think about considering natural childbirth the next time around, I get a reality check. I AM A WIMP. I have a measley (well, not quite) cold, allergy attack, whatever it is. It's not bad enough to send me to the doctor, but it is bad enough that I'm being a real baby. We're out of kleenex, so I'm using TP. Either Angels aren't very soft or "Angel Soft" is a misnomer. No big deal when it's being used for the advertised purpose. Not so good for the nose area.

I had my contacts in... something got in my eye, so now I'm back in my glasses. That puts me in a foglike trance under normal circumstances. Take into account the fact that they are 4 years old, Baby Bear has bent them out of shape, and one screw has been replaced with a tiny little keyring to hold it together. My prescription hasn't changed much, but just the crooked factor messes with my vision. Oh, and we took our prescription in to get a cheap pair at the supercenter. The optician was not in, and the optometrist is not licensed to do whatever is needed to fit glasses. Something's wrong with that. Efficiency, please? So my script is stuck to the fridge, after floating around the whole downstairs. (DON'T tell me that's what I get for going to the supercenter. Costco's selection of frames was terrible (they did have the same design I purchased FOUR years ago, and I'm not about to pay full price for things that I only wear when necessary... just before bedtime or when my contacts are really bugging me.)

Well, I did buy that salmon and roast potatoes/squash/carrots/onion sound like a yummy treat, so let's see if I can get dinner going.

Who wants to come clean up for me? There might even be enough leftovers to share.
It's menu-plan-monday in the blogosphere, thanks to OrgJunkie. Not here, though. I got dizzy & worn out just running to the grocery store to pick up pre-seasoned salmon to bake for tonight. I haven't planned the rest of the meals for this week, though I imagine we'll be eating a lot of squash, carrots & celery. And probably some chicken, pork chops, and hamburger. There's my outline... just gotta fill in the details.

I thought I'd just post a link to this site which has a lot of potential to be useful. I believe Steph at Olive Tree mentioned it a couple of weeks ago.

Free weekly dinner menus from Menus4Moms.com

Sunday, July 08, 2007

i'm about 0 for 20 on my contest entries, but i'm not going to stop entering them yet!

Steph at Adventures in Baby Wearing and Jenn from All Natural Mommies
are going to give away a Podunbutai baby carrier.

After reading books such as Babywise and Secrets of the Baby Whisperer, I started out motherhood with a fear of anything remotely related to AP. Both books implied that baby-wearing would result in a clingy, needy child with issues. They did have some helpful points in them, but I should have read more from "the other point of view" and relaxed a bit.

Well, my child will probably have issues anyway. I have issues, and anybody who is human has issues. You don't? Well, then, you're in denial and that's an issue all by itself! Right now one of my irking issues is how to get things done with a toddler hanging off me. EVERY time I try to sweep or Mop, someone wants to help. The problem is, the dirt and junk doesn't get picked up when she "helps." Watering the garden? Toddler gets soaked so she needs a change of clothes at best, and if she's covered in mud, a bath. I can't corral her and hold a hose. Normally, I just don't bother trying (to get things done). This results in a less than sparkling kitchen floor. There are times I want to give the whole baby-wearing thing a try. I keep telling myself it won't be long before Baby Bear will not want to be held so much... as she clings to my leg with a death grip. Anyway, if I win this contest, I will have to get hubby to take pics of me looking ridiculous trying to figure out how to get bear into a carrier. And if the experiment fails, and Baby Bear does't go for the confinement thing... I'll either have a tool to try with my next baby or a great baby gift to pass on to someone else!

So cross your fingers for me... or go enter the contest for yourself!
my garden last week...



this rosebush cost 3.22 at walmart. it's had a couple of pretty blooms. i'd say it was worth the $$$. plus, it looks great in the urn.


verbena


black eyed susans wait to peek through


hosta


cherry tomatoes-
bear ate the first ripe one this afternoon!
So, I am home because my throat feels like sandpaper and I didn't sleep well last night. this link to a plethora of links. I found I highly suspect I may not agree with every site theologically, however, it looks like there's some interesting info.

Saturday, July 07, 2007

just when i start thinking my body is "above" being affected by allergies...
they rear their ugly head.

Friday, July 06, 2007

Last-minute Date Night

Our anniversary is coming up, and we decided to splurge on dinner and a movie. We don't go to the theater very often, and we rarely go out to eat without our toddler in tow. Well, we had hoped to go out on the lake today, but the more we thought about it, the more we decided that would be a bad idea with Bear. I can't see her handling a life jacket very well. So we spent the morning relaxing, and my parents came over this afternoon to babysit. She smiled as they walked up the sidewalk. I love how she recognizes her family members.

So hubby and I went down to a matinee showing of Transformers (loved it- very nostalgic, and well done. I didn't really expect it to have a plot, but it did. Good special effects.... not for young kids, violence justifies the pg-13 rating; they couldn't have done the effects this well back when the cartoons came out), and we even got popcorn and cokes, which almost never happens. After dinner at Red Lobster, we decided to stop by Kohl's, as we knew Baby Bear was in good hands with Granwendy and Grandaddy. I found a beach towel/blanket & flip flops for our upcoming trip- no luck in the swimsuit area. Hubby found some shirts. Why is it that he finds clothes easier than I? Again, it was soooo nice to not have to worry about our little one while we were out.

So, happy early anniversary to us. Of course, you know you are an old married couple when you are home and on the couch by 9 p.m.
I found a blog where I can reminisce my childhood summer vacations... and learn more about the Cape, I'm sure.

I'd sure like to be there right now. It's too hot here in the South.

Thursday, July 05, 2007

Argh...

-another business opportunity presents itself. Dear Lord give me discernment & grace through this whole process of listening to the excited person's pitch. Have I mentioned that I am burnt out on network marketing? They are not all schemes or pyramids, but they are NOT for me. And I pray that my loved one doesn't get shafted in the process... (It does sound like the people behind it are decent people, but I can't help but be a skeptic, even if the product is pretty cool and shows potential.)

-another friend is having a very tough week. I wish I could be there to give her a great big hug, cry with her and pray with her in person. I can't share the details, but please pray. In a weird way, I am grateful to be able to say that I have been in a similar situation, because I know how much it helped me heal to hear that I was not alone.

-my house does not self-clean. I want an in-floor vacuum unit someday. That would probably require a crawl space or basement. I also want self-cleaning toilets, self-folding laundry and an irrigation system. While we're at it, something to keep the birds and bugs from eating my cherry tomatoes as they ripen would be nice.

-my yard has mole tunnels. lots of them. i hope i don't actually see one of the pests live. seeing the mulch move from one near the flowers i watered was creepy enough.

-gas was 11 cents higher less than 15 miles away today. what a ripoff. i only put $5 in the tank since I didn't want hubby to have to come rescue me, and i hope it doesn't go up before we fill up here. The oil companies are tyrants.

Yesterday was a very good day. So was today. I'm just tired, and now I "get" to go trim hubby's hair. I did get to go "gamble" at bunko tonight. I love a good girls' night out, and the fellowship is well worth the $5 lost in the bunko pot. Congrats to my lurker and neighbor, gina. :-) Oh, and the neighbor whose wife hosted is a sales rep for Russ, and he gave me some cool stuff for Baby Bear.

Argh....

Wednesday, July 04, 2007

Our Sunday School teacher has posted a very fitting prayer for today on his blog.
Two Memorials...

The first, a celebration of Mrs. Y's life, took place last night. It was a Memorial Service filled with love, laughter, tears, celebration and hope. The life of a woman who served her Heavenly Father and loved His people well was celebrated, Jesus' gift of eternal life for those who repent and trust in Him alone was celebrated, and the Holy Spirit's peace was present. While Mrs. Y was undoubtedly involved in her family reunion in Heaven, some of us who knew her here on earth had a little "family reunion" of our own. It was a blessing to see friends whom I hadn't seen in years... several years, almost a decade for some of them. After the Memorial Service, we fellowshipped together as Mrs. Y would have wanted.

The Second, today. Independence Day. My nation's birthday. I bought my own little cheesy T-shirt with a hint of the stars and stripes on it, and dressed Baby Bear in her red,white and blue outfit. Her Grandparents came over to see her, and she entertained them well. She displayed her own growing independence on many occasion both last night and today. We grilled out and ate inside. I am grateful for the many freedoms we have. I wish the entire globe shared the same freedom. But alas, I am a realist, and I know that such a dream is impossible until the Redeemer come to restore all things to Himself.

Happy Independence Day!

Tuesday, July 03, 2007

Time to Tackle...
Tackle It Tuesday Meme

the usual. (housework.) bathrooms. kitchen floor/counter/clean out fridge. laundry...
once again, i am grounding myself from the computer until i accomplish something.

i thought i might claim my scrapbook pages from the weekend as my tackle for the week, but i will not.

tech mom and dad are coming to get their grandbaby fix over the holiday, i have a memorial service to attend tonight, and my house is... a cluttered, dirty house. baby bear didn't help by dumping fruity cheerios all over the swept floor.

...see you after i've tackled it this tuesday.


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updates:
  • guest bath cleaned, most toys moved out of the tub (the bathroom process included digging a whole roll of tp out of the toilet. apparently baby bear knows it goes there. it least she doesn't have the flushing thing down yet so we didn't have an overflow disaster.)
  • guest bed made, with extra blanket so my in laws don't freeze in their son's igloo. the guest room is the coldest in our house. hubby likes the temp at 69.
  • laundry in process. 1 load put away, 2 dumped on master bed ready to be folded, 1 each in washer and dryer
  • hot pocket and brownie eaten for my lunch
  • kitchen floor swept & mopped
  • pork chops, diced tomatoes, & onion in crock pot for supper... squash to be added soon.
  • living room floor cleared of toys (temporarily)
  • living room, hall, bedrooms vacuumed
  • sweet tea brewing
  • 1 produce drawer cleaned out and washed
Boy, am I thankful that my in-laws are coming to see their Grandbaby and not a house. The clutter in other areas is still out of control. But after all this hard work, I do believe I deserve a break. Took a break and went to the scrapbook store to buy more papers (I had a coupon for 2 free sheets of cardstock with the purchase of 5 sheets of patterned paper. I couldn't resist. Yes, I do believe the shop is dangerously close. Even if it doesn't cost much in gas to get there...)
lauren